Feeling your actual heart tear in half is probably one of the most painful feelings. I think everyone will feel that happen to them once or many times in their lifetimes. For me, it takes a lot of courage to be open and truthful about certain things and heartbreak is usually not one of them. I keep it to myself until I think I’m ready to come forward about it.
But today, I took a leap and reached out to my friends about it right away. I’d have to say that it was quite liberating. I tell myself to be strong because I know I’m young and I have a lifetime to go with many heartbreaks to come.
I just want to just say that you’re not alone. Heartbreak doesn’t have to be with a significant other. It can be with a friend, a family member, a death of someone, or just not getting that dream job you wanted. But you don’t ever have to deal with any of that alone.
The one I’m feeling right now is a heartbreak of a love that never happened. I desired something that was never there for someone who didn’t reciprocate.
The part of moving on is real. You can’t force the other person to desire you and you can’t let someone be the road block to what God made you to be.
Be grateful. Take your time to grieve and move on. And I think that’s the best anyone could do.
I’m excited for a new chapter in my life.
This wasn’t an informational article but I did want to update you all on my life and where it’s going right now. I didn’t want to write this at first but I think it’s great to share with people real stories in real time. Not that it should be everyone’s business but that it’s honest and true and relatable for anyone out there who thinks that they’re alone.
Thank you all for supporting me so far and I’m excited to be on my own!! 🙂
Love you all,